Deconstruct reality to reconstruct on stage — During the curtain call, as the audience clap and cheer, we the performers are actually celebrating the personal transformations we have lived, the growth we have witnessed in ourselves and others, and the connections we have strengthened. What we remember more than the actual play is the process that took us to that night. Living and breathing the character is what experienced and professional actresses and actors are capable of. For the rest of us, it’s an uncomfortable and fascinating self-discovery. …